danceswithfaeriesunderthemoon:
TW: SLUT SHAMING.
GIRLS THAT NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT THEMSELVES. REBLOG IF U AGREE!
Oh shut the fuck up.
HOW MANY PEOPLE A WOMAN HAS SEX WITH IS NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS, HOW OTHER WOMEN DECIDE TO DRESS IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
FUCKING HELL SAKJDHKJHGDKJSBGFYUIDKJGH.
::Clears throat and quietly steps onto pedestal::
A womans worth has NOTHING to do with how many people she has slept with. A womans respect for herself is NOT AT ALL directly linked with how many people she has slept with.
You know what? Women DO need to learn some respect. We need to learn some respect for each other. We need to learn not to invalidate a woman because shes slept with a number of people we find to be negative. It doesnt matter. Why? Because she isnt you. If you want to save yourself..thats awesome! Go for it! But it makes you no more valid, beautiful, or respected than a woman who has slept with 20 or more people.
Stop defining a womans worth based on how many people she has sex with.
STOP IT!
This girl. Is thirteen. And nails an issue girls twice her age can’t get their heads around.
Girl, you’re going places. I applaud. Spread this.
I see young women on my Twitter feed slut shaming quite often. I ALWAYS remark on how they should stop, yet, they just dont get it.
Congratulations, young women on my twitter feed. This 13 year old just schooled your ignorant asses.
(via danceswithfaeriesunderthemoon)
"Too many of us still believe that “self-respect” for a woman means chastity and modesty. If she’s wearing revealing clothing, enjoys attention, and maybe even likes sex outside of a committed monogamous relationship, we call her a “slut”—and accuse her of not respecting herself. Perhaps she does respect herself, perhaps she doesn’t. (Promiscuity is not perfectly correlated with low self-esteem, despite what a lot of pop psychologists tell you.) But in the end, it doesn’t matter. Women aren’t commodities whose value is based on their own fluctuating sense of self-worth."
Hugo Schwyzer (I want my daughter to grow up in a world in which all men are safe, responsible, reliable — The Good Men Project Magazine)
YES YES YES YES YES YES
(via whatsajuthika)
I have a friend on Twitter who called Nicki Minaj “trashy” because she has a photo of herself with her legs spread. I argued against the use of the word “trashy” here. Just because a woman is sexy, enjoys sex, has sex, enjoys attention..doesnt make her “trashy.” I do not use words like “slut” and “hoe” to refer to any woman, regardless of her sexual actions.
(via feistyfeminist)
